How to Build Habits that Stick

We all start with the best intentions—whether it’s exercising regularly, eating healthier, or prioritizing self-care. But let’s be real… sticking to new habits can be hard. Life gets busy, motivation fades, and before you know it, you’re back to old patterns.

So how do you create habits that actually last? The key isn’t willpower—it’s strategy. By setting yourself up for success, you can build healthy routines that feel effortless and become part of your lifestyle.

Here’s how to make your habits stick for good!

1. Start Small & Be Specific

One of the biggest mistakes people make is going too big, too fast. If your goal is to work out every day, don’t start with an hour-long workout. Instead, commit to at least 10 minutes a day—something so easy you can’t say no. Once that’s locked in, build from there.

Example: Instead of saying, “I want to eat healthier,” say, “I will add a serving of veggies to my lunch every day.” Making your goals specific make it easier to follow through!

2. Habit Stacking

One of the easiest ways to build a new habit is to pair it with something you already do. This is called “habit stacking” and helps your new habit feel more natural.

Example:

• Want to start journaling? Do it right after brushing your teeth in the morning.
• Want to drink more water? Have a glass before your morning coffee.

The more effortless it feels, the more likely you are to stick with it!

3. Make It Easy

If a habit feels complicated or overwhelming, you won’t stick with it. Remove obstacles so it becomes the easiest choice.

Example:

• Want to work out in the morning? Lay out your workout clothes the night before.
• Want to eat healthier? Meal prep snacks so you always have good options on hand.

Set yourself up for success by making the habit as easy as possible.

4. Track Your Progress

There’s something powerful about seeing your progress—it keeps you motivated! Track in my MOVE APP or in the #GOALS PLANNER.

Even if you miss a day, don’t let it derail you. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s consistency!

5. Focus on Identity, Not Just Behavior

Instead of just thinking about what you want to do, shift your mindset to who you want to become. When you identify with your habit, it becomes a part of you.

Example: Instead of saying, “I’m trying to work out,” say, “I am someone who moves my body every day.” When you believe in your new identity, your actions will follow.

6. Reward Yourself (But Not with What You’re Avoiding)

Positive reinforcement is key! Celebrate your wins—big or small—to keep yourself motivated.

But here’s the trick: Don’t reward yourself in a way that contradicts your habit.

✅ Good reward: Bought a new yoga mat after sticking to a month of workouts.
❌ Not-so-great reward: Cheat days filled with unhealthy food and no workouts as an “reward.”

Keep your rewards aligned with your goals!

7. Give Yourself Grace & Keep Going

Nobody is perfect. You will miss days, and that’s okay. What matters is that you get back on track quickly instead of quitting altogether.

Make It a Lifestyle!

Building habits that stick isn’t about temporary motivation—it’s about creating a lifestyle that supports your goals. By starting small, making habits easy, and tracking progress, you can create lasting change and feel amazing while doing it!